Everyone needs to relax a little. I'm going to soon be implementing changes for the rules, and at the forefront of what I want is a more transparent strike system, as well as the ability for people to know when a ban is temporary vs permanent.
Some resources for online arguments:
Info in general on the value of online arguments:
https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/livingablissfullife/2018/04/be-happier-stop-arguing-with-people-on-the-internet
Mental health techniques after the fact:
https://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/after-argument-calm-your-mind-tips-relationships-7627900/